Monday, February 9, 2009

15 Signs Of A Cheater!




First off…if you have to ask "Is He Cheating?", the answer is in the question!

Women have an instinct that tells them what they know, not necessarily what they want to know. Is your gut telling you something isn’t right? Do you want to know? Do you want to catch HIM before you catch SOMETHING!?

I don’t have a degree in this area but having two ex-husbands with a history of cheating, makes me an expert in MY opinion! Here you go ladies…In my opinion, there are several signs that point in the direction of a cheater.

*WARNING* Read ONLY if you want to know the answer to the burning question! I suspected my two ex-husbands of cheating (hence, why they are now EX’S) and followed the steps that I will share with you, and CAUGHT them!

If you want to know, WHO, WHAT, WHERE, WHEN, and HOW? I am going to freely share the information with you.

Let me say, these are my personal opinions and experiences. I am only sharing what I went through, and my own techniques on how I “caught the cheater”.

15 signs that should make you pay attention…

*He starts taking really good care of himself, working out, keeping his hair groomed, wearing cologne more than usual, and dressing better.

*Changes his passwords to email, voicemail or doesn’t want you near when he is on the computer, you notice he checks his email more often.

*Guards his phone like it has CIA files downloaded on it, or keeps it on vibrate.
*Picks arguments over the smallest things, you seems to get on his nerves about any and everything.

*He finds reasons to get away from the house & you, he works longer hours. Men that travel with their job, may call you and tell you that they are tired, and will be turning their phone off to get some sleep.

*He starts talking about some new “female” from work, a friend of a friend, a guy’s girlfriend or wife.

*He starts complaining about you, the house, the kids, his life, his unfulfilled dreams, tells you he is just “bored”

*Doesn’t show attention, affection or care to have sex as often or at all.

*Get’s very defensive when you ask him what’s wrong, or blows up if you suggest that he is cheating.

*Becomes withdrawn from you and family members.

*You catch him in lies over varies things.

*He takes a liking to new types of music.

*He seems depressed and/or down on himself..(this is him dealing with a guilty conscience).

*He is suddenly interested in extreme sports or becomes a thrill seeker.

*Money disappears, or strange charges appear on the credit card bill, he starts fighting with you over money.


I have lived through this, and you can recover. I can assure you that you will survive the hurt, pain, anger, denial, and all of the other emotions, and you CAN find the answers if you want them bad enough.
I don’t know the answer to “What should I do if and when I find out?” That one is totally up to you.

What I can tell you is that… I survived the roller coaster of emotions, the pain of finding out the truth and then making a decision on what to do, I made it through the divorce, the struggles of being a single parent, and the joy of finding love again.


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